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Friday, February 29, 2008

=life of a perfectionist-

hmmm
i think this is a mental disorder
to them, everything is not in order, not perfect
the main causes is the lack of confidence and think tooo much
(this wad i believe bah)

whenever u see a person being enslaved by their own brain
and chionging into perfection mood
pls la, do something to ease their insecurity
words like:
~it's enough, can liao~
~stop, go take a break now!~
when saying such thing, u have to be firm
use force if neccessary
if not they will just ignore u
and continue their perfection mood

however,
words like:
~wahh, so nice~
~perfect!~
or anything words that are positive comment ARE NOT ALLOWED!
the reason being ONE,
ONE SINGLE NEGATIVE COMMENT can ACTIVATE PERFECTION MOOD which took thousands of positive comments to stop
and the re-activation of perfection mood have consequences far worse than anything

there are exceptional case,
like maybe the symptom is mild
might as well let them finish the work
then they will feel happy and the case is solve for now

and dun ever think to tell them stop the work at once
cus there another work/project/blah blah waiting for them
they sure
1) freaked out
2) streessed up
3) ultimate perfection mood!

and that is the life of a perfectionist
create stress and pressure to acheive perfection
to the extent the stress collaspe the mind